Parenting is one of the most rewarding yet challenging missions God entrusts to us. For many Christian parents, one of the deepest heartbreaks comes when a child or grandchild strays from the faith. Whether your child is a teenager questioning God or an adult who has walked away from the church, you’re not alone. In fact, studies show that two-thirds of Christian empty-nest parents have at least one adult child who is far from God.
But take heart—it’s never too late. God is always working, and He often uses parents and grandparents in profound ways to bring prodigal children back to Him. In this article, we’ll explore biblical principles, practical strategies, and encouraging truths to guide you as you seek to strengthen your relationship with your child and inspire their faith.
1. Offer Your Own Heart to God First
Deuteronomy 6:5–7 calls us to love the Lord with all our heart, soul, and strength and to diligently teach His commands to our children. But before we can guide others spiritually, we must first offer our own hearts to the Lord.
It’s easy to focus all your energy on your child’s spiritual struggles, but God’s Word reminds us that our own walk with Him sets the foundation for our influence. Ask yourself: Am I growing in my relationship with Christ? Am I praying fervently for my child’s salvation, or am I distracted by daily concerns?
Prayer is a vital way to align your heart with God’s and intercede for your child. Instead of focusing solely on external problems—like relationships, career challenges, or bad habits—make their spiritual condition your primary prayer priority. Pray for repentance, a softened heart, and opportunities to share the Gospel.
2. Rebuild Relationships with Love
Proverbs 23:26 says, “My son, give me your heart.” This simple yet powerful verse highlights an essential principle: the shortest path to your child’s spiritual renewal is through a strong, loving relationship with you.
When a child withdraws, becomes secretive, or hardens their heart, the first step toward healing is to rebuild trust and connection. Start by listening more and talking less. Instead of jumping into lectures or advice, show genuine interest in their life, struggles, and perspectives.
Even if your child opens up with things that are painful to hear, prioritize honesty in your relationship. Thank them for their courage and emphasize that your love for them is unconditional. When your child feels safe sharing their heart with you, it creates fertile ground for deeper conversations about faith.
3. Never Stop Sharing the Gospel
Romans 1:16 declares, “I am not ashamed of the gospel, for it is the power of God for salvation to everyone who believes.” The Gospel message has the power to transform hearts, no matter how far someone has wandered.
In your interactions with your prodigal child, look for natural opportunities to share spiritual truths. These conversations may feel awkward or risky, but they are worth it. Pray for boldness and discernment, and trust God to use your words to plant seeds of faith.
Even small moments—sharing how God has worked in your life, offering to pray for them, or discussing a meaningful Bible verse—can make a lasting impact. Remember, your role is to faithfully sow seeds; God is the one who brings the harvest.
4. Practical Steps to Support Your Mission
- Join a Community of Prayer: Parenting a prodigal can feel isolating, but you don’t have to face it alone. Connect with other Christian parents who are walking a similar path. Visionary Family Ministries regularly hosts prayer gatherings, including a special Zoom meeting on January 19, 2025, to pray for prodigal children. Email peter@visionaryfam.com for details.
- Use Biblical Resources: Equip yourself with tools to guide your parenting journey. Books like Never Too Late: Encouraging Faith in Your Adult Child offer practical insights and scriptural encouragement to help you persevere.
- Focus on Long-Term Influence: Building trust, nurturing relationships, and modeling Christlike love are investments that yield eternal results. Don’t expect instant change but trust God’s timing.
5. Trust God’s Power and Promises
Parenting doesn’t end when your kids turn 18 or move out. It’s a lifelong mission, and God has chosen you to be a key part of your child’s faith story. No matter how far your son or daughter seems from Him, remember that God’s love and power are greater.
Isaiah 55:11 reminds us that God’s Word never returns void. Keep sharing, praying, and trusting that He is working behind the scenes—even when you can’t see it.
You’re Not Alone
If you’re feeling discouraged or overwhelmed, know that you are not alone. Many parents are walking this same road, and God is with you every step of the way.
Join the Visionary Family Ministries community for ongoing encouragement and support. Together, we can lean on God’s promises, pray for one another, and trust Him to do miraculous work in the lives of our children and grandchildren.
To learn more, visit visionaryfam.com and discover resources, events, and prayer gatherings designed to strengthen your faith and family relationships.
Remember: It’s never too late for God to move in your family. Keep praying, keep loving, and keep trusting.
