Two Simple Ways to Pursue Your Spouse - Visionary Family Ministries

Episode 288 · Season 1 · October 19, 2026

Two Simple Ways to Pursue Your Spouse

  1. EP 288

    Two Simple Ways to Pursue Your Spouse

    17 min
Do you feel like you and your spouse are growing closer together, or are you slowly drifting apart? Oneness in marriage doesn’t happen automatically. It requires intentional choices, daily habits, and a willingness to invite God into your relationship. In this episode of Family Vision, Rob and Amy Rienow share a message recorded live at the Great Marriage Getaway at Ridgecrest Conference Center in North Carolina. Drawing from their own marriage and family experiences, they explore two practical ways couples can pursue greater unity: praying for one another and speaking words that strengthen rather than damage their relationship. Rob and Amy also share how their family backgrounds shaped their understanding of marriage, why even a short daily prayer can make a difference, and how the words we speak about our spouses—especially when they’re not around—can influence our own hearts and attitudes.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode

  • Why oneness in marriage requires intentional effort rather than simply happening over time
  • How Jesus helps couples overcome the barriers that divide them
  • Why praying together, even for just a minute or two each day, can strengthen your marriage
  • Practical examples of how husbands and wives can pray for one another
  • Why speaking positive, encouraging words matters even when you don’t feel particularly loving
  • How negative conversations about your spouse can influence your own heart and attitude
  • What Scripture teaches about the power and consequences of our words

Featured Resources

Visionary Marriage — Discover a biblical vision for marriage and practical ways to strengthen your relationship, pursue unity, and build a marriage centered on Christ. Learn more at https://visionaryfam.com. Visionary Parenting — Discover God’s purpose for your family and practical ways to help your children follow Jesus. Start reading for free: https://visionaryfam.com/parenting. Upcoming Events — Meet Rob and Amy Rienow in person at a Visionary Family Conference or other upcoming ministry event. View the schedule at https://visionaryfam.com/events. Love this episode? We’d love to hear from you! Share your thoughts and prayer requests at [email protected]. If this episode encouraged you, please take a moment to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. Your review helps more families discover the show and grow in their faith. Subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or YouTube so you never miss an episode.
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